Why self improvement important for life ?

Why self improvement important for life ?

Sometimes, when all our doubts, fears and insecurities disturbs our mind, A thought come up in every mind “I wish I was somebody else.”  More often than not, we thought and trust that someone or rather, many people are better than us.- when in reality, the fact is, most people are more scared than us.

You mind always spot a totally eye-catching girl sitting by herself at a party, casually sipping on a glass of Asti Spumanti. Then you thought to yourself, “she seem to be more perfectly calm and confident.” But if you could read thru her transparent mind, you would watch a bunch of clouds of thoughts and you might just be amazed that she’s thinking “are people talking about why I am sitting here alone?... Why don’t guys search me attractive? …I don’t like my ankles, they look too skinny… I wish I was as intelligent as my best friend.”

We all have watch a young business entrepreneur and say “Wooh… what else could he ask for?” He stares at himself at the mirror and murmur to himself, “I just hate my big eyes… I wonder why my friends won’t talk to me… I hope mom and dad would still work things out.”

Isn’t it funny? We look at other people, envy them for looking so outrageously perfect and wish we could trade places with them, while they look at us and thinks of the same thing. We are insecure of other people who themselves are insecure of us. We suffer from low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence and lose hope in self improvement because we are enveloped in quiet desperation.

There is a time, you notice that you have an irritating habit like biting off your finger nails, having a foul mouth, and you – of all people, is the last to know.

There is always a friend in your life who never gets tired of talking. And in most conversations, she is the only one who seems to be interested into the things she has to say. So all of our other friends tries to avoid the circles whenever she’s  around, and she doesn’t notices how badly she became socially handicapped – gradually affecting the people in her environment.

There is a key to self improvement that is to listen and talk to a trusted friend. Search someone who you seems to be comfort in opening up with even the most gentle topics you want to discuss. Ask questions like “do you think I am ill-mannered?”,  “Do I always sound so argumentative?”,  “Do I talk too loud?”,  “Does my breath smell?”,  “Do we ever bore you when were together?”.  In this way, the other person will obviously understand that you are interested in the process of self improvement. Lend her your ears for comments and criticisms and don’t provide her answers like “Don’t exaggerate! That’s just the way I am!”  Try to open up your mind and heart as well. And in return, you might want to help your friend with constructive criticism that will also help her improve her self.

One of Whitney Houston’s songs says “Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.” True enough. In order to love others, you must love yourself too. Remember, you cannot provide what you do not have.

Before saying other people few ways on how to improve themselves, let them see that you yourself is a representation and a product of self improvement. Self improvement makes us better people, we then inspire other people, and then the rest of the world will follow.

Stop thinking of yourselves as second-rate beings. Forget the repetitive thought of “If only I was richer… if only I was thinner” and so on.  Accepting your true self is the first step to self improvement. We need to stop comparing ourselves to others only to find out at the end that we’ve got  10 more reasons to envy them.

We all have our insecurities. Nobody is perfect. We always wish we had better things, better features, better body parts, etc. But life need not to be perfect for people to be happy about themselves.Self improvement and loving yourself is not a matter of shouting to the whole world that you are perfect and you are the best. It’s the virtue of acceptance and contentment. When we begin to improve ourselves, we then begin to feel contented and happy.


Published - 2015-04-13    By - danny

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