Do you ever met or ever seen a person who has friendly nature and this person when put him a room of strangers, he'll be friends with almost everyone in no time? We call such a people-person, someone unbelievably nice and charismatic that he can charm anyone into doing anything.
Social Self Empower person basically achieves so much greatness as compared to other persons, basically because of the people that catapult him to success. He is able to gain the trust and support of the people, whom he had helped before. This person can everyready for giving help. He can perform anything with the plethora of people behind him. All because he knows he maximizes his social potential!
If you understand your social skills and apply it your life than, you will be able to gain self-empowerment. Self-empowerment is all about creating a general overhaul in your life and changing yourself into a happier and more successful person.If you think you are the one of these people, then we cannot provide you reason why you not successfull. How to be Self Empowered in following steps
1. Living Geniune.
Hypocrisy will always make you all the way down. Living genuinely nice and attractive to people. Once they perceive that you are Mr. Hypocrite with selfish intentions, you might as well say goodbye to self-empowerment.
2. Being a greatest listener
Simple way to gain trust and love from the people is to listen their problems and sympathize with them. But only hearing will not be good, try be close with them by your heart and make a eye contact with them, dont ignore if the talkings is not of your business ,listen every word they says. Brownie points when they search out that there is a confidence in you due to your self empowerment.3. Loudly Laughing.
Laughing does not mean that you will start laughing wheather joke is funny or not, try to laugh more when you find this joke funny.This means searching humor in things and not being too darn serious. A person oozing with an awesome sense of humor attracts crowds and eventually, attracts success.4. Being yourself.
When you are fluttering around the world like a social butterfly, there are chances when you forgot about yourself, permitting everyone to push you over. Always keep in mind about yourself before giving love and value. If you deem yourself respectable and worthy of affection, people will flock to you and not trample on you.5. Randomly behaving kindness.
Its not important that you also have to do a John Rockefeller and blow your savings to charity. A small acts of kindness matters the most, and all this is as simple as providing someone a surprise you-take-care card or helping an elderly cross the street. When we were kindergarten students, kindness was taught to us and greatly practiced. Now is the time to revive the good deeds and this time, let them stay for good.6. Linking up with your old freinds.
In old times there are so many freindships that results in good bye and never linked againg, but thanks to technology of internet, you can do something about it. Realize and think about your old days by flipping your yearbook and find for people freinds that you really like to communicate with them. Adding these old friends to your roster of support peers will surely make you feel good all over. 7. Creating your personality.
Are you grouchy, grumpy and generally morose? Whoa, you can't go through life with those. Get rid of the bad traits and habits that perpetually hamper your growth. And really, who wants a grouchy friend anyway? 8. Live Confident.
Be able to stride to the other corner of the room and introduce yourself to people with that winning smile of yours. Just remember: be confident, not arrogant.9. Controlling Practise.
Whenever you angry, don't snap at anyone. Never throw a tantrum. Try to be calm and collected. Be strong enough to take control of situation and transform your anger into something more productive and passive. As soon as people think your anger goes to volcanic proportions easily, they will find it hard to come to you.10. Keep nurturing your relationships
Your relationship with your family, friends and significant others is too precious that you must not neglect it whatever happens. Go out and have fun with them. Do things together. Happiness will never fly from your side as long as the people who matter the most are close to you.
In the end, using people for self-empowerment means becoming a better and more lovable person. It's a win-win situation: the people know they can turn to you anytime and vice versa.