Any thing happens in our daily life comes with a purpose. If you will loose thats purpose is to work hard for next time. There are several conditions when one thing leads to another. Instead of watching yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, try to learn them from all as these are your guides and these help in your self reformation which results in your success.
We all have watched the movie Patch Adams which most liked movie, but in actual it is one of the greatest film that will teach you to improve yourself. Hunter “patch” Adams is a medical student who never succeeded to make it through the board exams. Suffering in melancholy, depression and suicidal attempts for months – he finally select to seek for medical attention and voluntarily admitted himself in a psychiatric ward. He admitted in the hospital for months which help him in meeting different kinds of people. Sick people in that matter. He met a catatonic, a mentally retarded, a schizophrenic and so on. Atlast Patch searched ways of treating his own ailment and finally realized he has to get back on track. One morning admas wake up realizing that after all the failure and pains he has pass through, but he still want to become the a doctor. He started carrying with himself a positive attitude that is developed in him due to self improvement and success. Self Reformation helps him to improve his habots and way of looking the world, but also the life of the people around him and the quality of life. Did he succeed? Needless to say, he became the best damn doctor his country has ever known.
Now what to do for self improvement in ourself from where to start just follow these tips that will help you to gain success using self reformation
*First thing is believe in yourself and ban your mind from thinking and feeling as if you’re a failure, which is actually not. Remember that no one accepts you if you yourself not accept you?
*Whenever you see hunks and models on Television, try to think more on self improvement, rather than self pitying. Self acceptance never means that you should have beautiful legs or abs its also related to inner beauty.
*There are situations when people feel so down and low about themselves, try to help themselves by moving up give them advices. Never go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior.
*World is full of lessons, not mistakes. Never behave stupid and doomed forever just because you not succeeded on a science quiz. There’s always a next time. Make rooms for self improvement.
*Accept things one at a time. You don’t expect black sheep’s to be goody-two-shoes in just a snap of a finger. Self improvement is a one day at a time process.
*Self improvement empowers to inner stability, personality development and dig this ….. It can be acheieved only if you have self confidence, self appreciation and self esteem.
*Create your meaningful goals that you want to acheieve. Self improvement never turn you to be the exact replica of Cameron Diaz or Ralph Fiennes. It hopes and aims to result to an improved and better YOU.
*Small things mean BIG to other people. Sometimes, we don’t understand that the little things that we do like a pat on the back, saying “hi” or “hello”, greeting someone “good day” or telling Mr. Smith something like “hey, I love your tie!” are simple things that mean so much to other people. When we’re being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them.
*The times when you ’re trying to accept change and go through the procedure of self improvement, it doesn’t mean that everyone else is. The world is a place where people of varying natures and attitude hang out. Sometimes, even if you think you and your best friend always like to work on the same thing together at the same time, she would most likely decline an invitation for self improvement.
Keep in mind that there’s no such thing as ‘over night success’. Its always a wonderful feeling to hold on to the things that you already have now, realizing that those are just one of the things you once wished for. A very nice quote says that “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” We are living only learn lessons and nothing else. Our parents, school teachers, friends, colleagues, officemates, neighbors… they are our teachers. When we open our doors for self improvement, we increase our chances to head to the road of success.